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I’m Michelle Hy I am a second generation Asian-American, the daughter of Chinese and Taiwanese immigrants, born and raised in Portland, Oregon. I have been practicing non-monogamy since 2012 and am cultivating a space on this little corner of the internet that helps people question mononormativity, destigmatizes polyamory, and helps make it more accessible and viable — especially for BIPOC and other largely underrepresented groups in non-monogamy communities. I strongly believe that the personal is political and that because relationships do not exist in a vacuum, it is important to discuss non-monogamy from an intersectional lens rather than simply trod out the same advice about jealousy, metamours, etc. time and time again. I go through my non-monogamy story fairly thoroughly on an episode of the Multiamory Podcast, which you can listen to here. Mother to two cats, Basil and Reginald. Got a B.A. in Applied Linguistics, which I don’t really use in a professional capacity. 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