Additional Resources & Recommendations
This is by no means an exhaustive list. I will continue to edit and flesh it out over time. If you have any suggestions, let me know: polyamorouswhileasian@gmail.com.
Websites
PolyFriendly.org
A directory of polyamorous-friendly professionals: therapists, lawyers, doctors, and more.
Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory
KAP is a service offered by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom dedicated to providing the community with a listing of psychotherapeutic, medical, legal and other professionals who have stated that they are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.
Unsettle (fka The Critical Polyamorist)
Collection of writings of Kim TallBear, whose work discusses the intersections of non-monogamy and indigeneity, decolonization, and cultural politics.
Brighter than Sunflowers
The personal blog of Eve Rickert, co-author of More Than Two, which will have a second edition release September 2024 with Andrea Zanin.
Poly Role Models
Kevin Patterson is the author of Love’s Not Color Blind. He is a writer who educates on non-monogamy and has highlighted a variety of people and different ways of doing non-monogamy in his Poly Role Models series.
Polyammering
For those in or curious about “mono-poly” dynamics (relationships between polyam and monogamous people). A blog and relationship coaching services from Phoebe Philips, a self-described monocorn: “A monoamorous person who is accepting of polyamory and actively works toward having a harmonious relationship with a polyamorous partner.“ Good resource for mono-polyam relationships.
“The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy”
Written by Andie Nordgren. Describes the overarching principles of relationship anarchy.
UNICORNS-R-US
What does “unicorn hunting” mean and can it ever be ethical? Great read for couples, “unicorns,” and anyone in the non-monogamy community, really.
Books
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix
The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Eaton
Love’s Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson
Minimizing Marriage by Elizabeth Brake
Monogamy? In This Economy? Finances, Childrearing, and Other Practical Concerns of Polyamory by Laura Boyle (Ready for Polyamory)
More Than Two (Second Edition) by Eve Rickert and Andrea Zanin
Off the Relationship Escalator by Amy Gahran
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
The Polyamory Breakup Book by Kathy Labriola
A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous by Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
Polyamorous: Living and Loving More by Jenny Yuen
Polyamory & Parenthood by Jessica and Joseph Daylover (Remodeled Love)
Relationship Anarchy by Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés
The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory by Dedeker Winston
Undoing Monogamy by Angela Willey
Why It's Okay To Not Be Monogamous by Justin L. Clardy