Additional Resources & Recommendations
This is by no means an exhaustive list. I will continue to edit and flesh it out over time. If you have any suggestions, let me know: polyamorouswhileasian@gmail.com.
Websites
PolyFriendly.org
A directory of polyamorous-friendly professionals: therapists, lawyers, doctors, and more.
Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory
KAP is a service offered by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom dedicated to providing the community with a listing of psychotherapeutic, medical, legal and other professionals who have stated that they are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.
Unsettle (fka The Critical Polyamorist)
Collection of writings of Kim TallBear, whose work discusses the intersections of non-monogamy and indigeneity, decolonization, and cultural politics.
Brighter than Sunflowers
The personal blog of Eve Rickert, co-author of More Than Two. I no longer recommend More Than Two due to the multiple accounts of harm and abuse caused by the other author (and her former partner), Franklin Veaux.
Poly Role Models
Kevin Patterson is the author of Love’s Not Color Blind. He is a writer who educates on non-monogamy and has highlighted a variety of people and different ways of doing non-monogamy in his Poly Role Models series.
Polyammering
For those in or curious about dynamics between polyam and monogamous people. A blog and relationship coaching services from Phoebe Philips, a self-described monocorn: “A monoamorous person who is accepting of polyamory and actively works toward having a harmonious relationship with a polyamorous partner.“ Good resource for mono-polyam relationships.
“The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy”
Written by Andie Nordgren. Describes the overarching principles of relationship anarchy.
UNICORNS-R-US
What does “unicorn hunting” mean and can it ever be ethical? Great read for couples, “unicorns,” and anyone in the non-monogamy community, really.
Books
The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Eaton
Love’s Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson
Opening Up by Tristan Taormino
Polyamorous: Living and Loving More by Jenny Yuen
The Polyamory Breakup Book by Kathy Labriola
The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory by Dedeker Winston
Off the Relationship Escalator by Amy Gahran
Polyamory & Parenthood by Jessica and Joseph Daylover (Remodeled Love)
The Anxious Person’s Guide to Non-Monogamy by Lola Phoenix
Minimizing Marriage by Elizabeth Brake
Undoing Monogamy by Angela Willey
Relationship Anarchy by Juan-Carlos Pérez-Cortés
Why It's Okay To Not Be Monogamous by Justin L. Clardy
A Polyamory Devotional by Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers