Additional Resources & Recommendations

This is by no means an exhaustive list. I will continue to edit and flesh it out over time. If you have any suggestions, let me know: polyamorouswhileasian@gmail.com.

Websites

PolyFriendly.org

A directory of polyamorous-friendly professionals: therapists, lawyers, doctors, and more.

Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory

KAP is a service offered by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom dedicated to providing the community with a listing of psychotherapeutic, medical, legal and other professionals who have stated that they are knowledgeable about and sensitive to diverse expressions of sexuality.

Unsettle (fka The Critical Polyamorist)

Collection of writings of Kim TallBear, whose work discusses the intersections of non-monogamy and indigeneity, decolonization, and cultural politics.

Brighter than Sunflowers

The personal blog of Eve Rickert, co-author of More Than Two. I no longer recommend More Than Two due to the multiple accounts of harm and abuse caused by the other author (and her former partner), Franklin Veaux.

Poly Role Models

Kevin Patterson is the author of Love’s Not Color Blind. He is a writer who educates on non-monogamy and has highlighted a variety of people and different ways of doing non-monogamy in his Poly Role Models series.

Polyammering

For those in or curious about dynamics between polyam and monogamous people. A blog and relationship coaching services from Phoebe Philips, a self-described monocorn: “A monoamorous person who is accepting of polyamory and actively works toward having a harmonious relationship with a polyamorous partner.“ Good resource for mono-polyam relationships.

“The short instructional manifesto for relationship anarchy”

Written by Andie Nordgren. Describes the overarching principles of relationship anarchy.

UNICORNS-R-US

What does “unicorn hunting” mean and can it ever be ethical? Great read for couples, “unicorns,” and anyone in the non-monogamy community, really.

Books